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How to help your overweight child

HEALTHY EATING AND PHYSICAL ACTIVITY habits are key to your child's well-being. Eating too much and exercising too little can lead to overweight and related health problems that can follow children into adult years.
You can take an active role in helping your child-and your whole family-learn healthy eating and physical activity habits that may last for a lifetime.

IS MY CHILD OVERWEIGHT?

Because children grow at different rates at different times, it is not always easy to tell if a child is overweight. If you think that your child is overweight, talk to your health care provider. Your health care provider can measure your child's height and weight and tell you if your child is in a healthy range.

HOW CAN I HELP MY OVERWEIGHT CHILD?

Involve the whole family in building healthy eating and physical activity habits. It benefits everyone and does not single out the child who is overweight. Try to:

- Be supportive

- Encourage healthy eating habits

- Encourage daily physical activity

- Discourage inactive pastimes

- Be a positive role model.



BE SUPPORTIVE

- Tell your child that he or she is loved, is special, and is important. Children's feelings about themselves often are based on their parents' feelings about them.

- Accept your child at any weight. Children will be more likely to accept and feel good about themselves when their parents accept them.

- Listen to your child's concerns about his or her weight. Overweight children probably know better than anyone else that they have a weight problem. For this reason, overweight children need support, acceptance, and encouragement from parents.

ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATING HABITS

- Buy and serve more fruits and vegetables (fresh, frozen, or canned). Let your child choose them at the store.

- Skip buying soft drinks and high fat/high calorie snack foods like chips, cookies, and candy. If children do not see these foods at home, they will be less likely to ask for them and you will not have to say "no." Choose healthy snack foods.

- Eat breakfast every day. Skipping breakfast can leave your child hungry, tired, and looking for less healthy foods later in the day.

- Plan healthy meals and eat together as a family. Planning the week's meals and grocery shopping can help save you time and money. Sitting together at meal times helps children learn to enjoy a variety of foods.

- Eat fast food less often. When you visit a fast food restaurant, take advantage of the healthful options offered.

HERE ARE MORE TIPS TO ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATING HABITS

- Do not get discouraged if your child will not eat a new food the first time it is served. Some kids will need to have a new food served to them 10 times or more before they will eat it.

- Try not to use food as a reward when encouraging kids to eat. Promising dessert to a child for eating vegetables, for example, sends the message that vegetables are less valuable than dessert. Kids learn to dislike foods they think are less valuable.

- Do not try to control the amount of food your child eats. It is up to you to provide your child with healthy meals and snacks, but your child should be allowed to choose how much food he or she will eat.

HEALTHY SNACK FOODS FOR YOUR CHILD TO TRY

- Fresh fruit

- Fruit canned in juice or light syrup, such as mandarin oranges, peaches, or pineapples

- Small amounts of dried fruits such as raisins, apple rings, or apricots

- Fresh vegetables such as baby carrots, cucumber, zucchini, or tomatoes cut and served with low-fat salad dressing for dipping

- Reduced fat cheese served with whole-wheat crackers

- Low-fat yogurt with fruit

- Bagel spread with small amount of peanut butter

- Graham crackers, animal crackers, or low-fat vanilla wafers

- Tortilla spread with low-fat refried beans

Foods that are small, round, sticky, or hard to chew, such as raisins, whole grapes, hard vegetables, hard chunks of cheese, nuts, seeds, and popcorn can cause choking. These foods are not good choices for preschool age children.

ENCOURAGE DAILY PHYSICAL ACTIVITY

Like adults, kids need daily physical activity. Here are some ways to help your child move every day:

- When appropriate and safe, let your child walk places such as to school, the store, or to friends' houses.

- Encourage your child to take physical education (PE) class at school, if available.

- Encourage your child to join a sports team or class, such as soccer, dance, basketball, or gymnastics.

- Be active together as a family. Assign active chores such as making the beds, washing the car, or vacuuming. Plan active outings such as a trip to the zoo or a walk through a local park.

Because his or her body is not ready yet, do not encourage your pre-adolescent child to participate in adult-style physical activity such as long jogs, using an exercise bike or treadmill, or lifting heavy weights. FUN physical activities are best for kids.

Kids need a total of about 60 minutes of physical activity a day, but this does not have to be all at one time. Short 10- or even 5-minute bouts of activity throughout the day are just as good.

DISCOURAGE INACTIVE PASTIMES

- Set limits on the amount of time your family spends watching TV and videos, and playing video games.

- Help your child find FUN things to do besides watching TV. Your child may find that creative play is more interesting than television.

- Read together instead of watching TV. Read at home or volunteer to read to others. Read to adults and children at your local hospital or sign up to help people learn to read.

- Encourage your child to get up and move during commercials and discourage snacking when the TV is on.

FUN THINGS FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILD TO DO BESIDES WATCHING TV

- Take turns acting out favorite books or stories, or singing along to favorite songs. Use old clothes for costumes.

- Make instruments out of kitchen items and dance to the music you make. Shake a jar filled with macaroni and beat on a plastic bowl with wooden spoons.

- Play schoolyard games at home. Make a hopscotch on the floor with masking tape, play follow-the-leader or "Simon says," and toss balls into a basket.

- Do a family art project. Trace cookie cutters on paper, make masks out of paper bags, design a paper airplane, or cut and glue pictures to a piece of paper.

- Go camping at home. Make a tent by putting a sheet over a table or use a big box as a tent, make a sleeping bag from a blanket, and sing "campfire" songs.

BE A POSITIVE ROLE MODEL

Children are good learners and they learn what they see. Choose healthy foods and active pastimes for yourself. Your children will see that they can follow healthy habits that last for the rest of their lives.

FIND MORE HELP

Your health care provider

Ask your health care provider for brochures, booklets, or other informational materials about healthy eating, physical activity, and weight control. Your health care provider may be able to refer you to other health care professionals who work with overweight children, such as registered dietitians, psychologists, and exercise physiologists.

Your local library

Ask a librarian to help you locate books about weight control for children. Books should be written by a health professional and should encourage the whole family to build healthy eating and physical activity habits. Avoid books that promise quick results or encourage fad diets.

Many libraries sponsor talks about a variety of topics, including health. Ask a librarian if any talks about healthy eating, physical activity, or weight control for children are scheduled.

The Internet

Look for websites about healthy eating, physical activity, and weight control for children. When searching the Internet, avoid websites that promise quick results, encourage fad diets, or ask you to buy something such as pills, food, or exercise equipment.

Here are some resources that you can look at on the Internet:

- The Food Guide Pyramid
http://www.usda.gov/cnpp/pyrabklt.pdf
can guide you in making healthy food choices for your family.

- The Food Guide Pyramid for Young Children
http://www.usda.gov/cnpp/KidsPyra/PyrBook.pdf
2 to 6 Years Old can help you teach your young child what to eat to grow and stay healthy.

- Healthy Eating and Physical Activity Across Your Lifespan: Helping Your Child
http://www.niddk.nih.gov/health/nutrit/pubs/parentips/tipsforparents.htm
is a helpful, in-depth brochure from the Weight-control Information Network (WIN).

- Kidnetic.com
http://www.kidnetic.com/
provides healthy eating and physical activity tips for kids and parents.

- KidsHealth.org
http://www.kidshealth.org/
provides information about nutrition and fitness for kids.

- Smart-mouth.org
http://www.smartmouth.org/
offers ideas and recipes for healthier eating.

- Your Child's Weight: Help Your Child with Successful Weight Management
http://public.bcm.tmc.edu/cnrc/consumer/nyc/childsweight.pdf
is a useful brochure from the Children's Nutrition Research Center at Baylor College of Medicine.

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